It is sometimes very difficult for silli to say "No."  I think a lot,
perhaps too much about how the other party will feel or react; 
particularly if it happens to be a kind, friendly person.
It feels almost like killing a mockingbird.

When saying "No" is inevitable, I try to do it at the earliest.
Any kind of avoidance or procrastination will only ( Read more... )

"We dance round in a ring and suppose
But the Secret sits in the middle and knows."

-Robert Frost